Weclock: Damn straight you a fat ho, but lemme tell ya somethin'
I wouldn't have it any other way, now bring your fat sexy ass in here and let me pound it.
Seems legit.
Personally, I have a hard time being sexually attracted to a woman if she doesn't have lotsa curves and copious amounts of softness in several key areas. Sadly, this is apparently not "attractive."
I even like a little belly fat. As long as she isn't sporting a beer gut.
StingingVelvet: If a relationship doesn't have honesty then its just fuck buddies with obligations. That doesn't mean you say "bitch you so fat", it means you say "honey for both our sakes I think we need to be more healthy. I think you're beautiful now, and I always will, but lets be the best we can be" or something. It depends on the situation.
Being obese is not good for anyone. This idea we have to tip-toe around it like its a race or sexual orientation is just making people fatter.
cjrgreen: This is true, but you are making the assumption that it is an honest question to which she expects an honest answer, and that is almost never the case.
She doesn't actually want to know whether she's fat, or whether you think she's fat. She's insecure about something (you get to guess what; it may not have anything to do with real or imagined flab) and wants strokes.
While ravishing her on the spot is excessive in most situations, it's the general direction in which your answer should tend.
I've heard guys talk about this, but that's honestly never been my experience. My GF asks me something when she wants an honest answer, and doesn't ask if she doesn't want an honest answer. She doesn't really play the "fishing for compliments" game. Then again, I'm pretty open about the fact that I think she's absolute beautiful, so I doubt that she needs an ego boost--at least from me (and I'm pretty sure the worrying about appearances thing has a lot more to do with what other girls think than what guys think).
