Posted April 04, 2019
low rated
dtgreene: The problem comes when you lose to a sore winner, and it's that sort of thing that turns me off to competition.
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Now, if you lose to an opponent who is a good sport, or lose in a single player game, then the problem isn't so bad, provided you're not one who gets irrationally angry whenever you lose. (If you're that type of person, you probably don't want to play what could be called "troll games", or games that hit the player with traps that will cause an unsuspecting player to suddenly lose.)
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Losing to someone who is a good sport and has the mindset of a teacher could definitely be a good learning experience. Losing to a sore winner, however, is not.
That can be offputting, which is why you have to keep your calm in those situations and try your best to move beyond such or explain how you feel to such people if you want to try and dissuade their bad behavior. -------------------------------------
Now, if you lose to an opponent who is a good sport, or lose in a single player game, then the problem isn't so bad, provided you're not one who gets irrationally angry whenever you lose. (If you're that type of person, you probably don't want to play what could be called "troll games", or games that hit the player with traps that will cause an unsuspecting player to suddenly lose.)
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Losing to someone who is a good sport and has the mindset of a teacher could definitely be a good learning experience. Losing to a sore winner, however, is not.
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Good points here.
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Imo both can be a learning experience. You can still learn from the opponents moves/playstyle how to better your own playstyle or beat them/the game itself. You can also help them learn to not be such sore winners.