StingingVelvet: I seriously have to wonder if everyone who praises living room gaming is single.
I am not. The thing is, in some cases (not always) I would prefer playing on the big TV... but as you implied, I can't because I am not the only user of the TV. So it isn't because I don't want to, but because I can't.
There's another thing as well, even if I were alone: I quite often like to use my computer (laptop), even play games, while the TV is also running in the background. Like right now for example. If I see something interesting coming from the tube, I might pause what I'm doing on the computer, and concentrate on the TV instead. If I use the TV for gaming, it rules out this as well, of course.
But still, sometimes, when I've been alone home, I know nothing interesting is coming from the TV anyway... I might switch the video output to TV, grab the wireless keyboard and mouse, and start playing with a bigger screen. But since it takes some time to adjust to a comfortable position where I can use the keyboard and mouse without a desk (from couch), for those cases I might prefer a gamepad that has accurate mouse aiming as well.
That also partly explains why I prefer laptops to desktop PCs. Easier to use from the couch + coffee table, near the TV.